Chris Glein Game Design and Life

Music Made Me - Part 12

Little Wing - Stevie Ray Vaughn

In my last two years of high school I added on part time community college classes via the “Running Start” program. Between the two it was a lot of school. It was kind of ridiculous. For some reason I didn’t really question the sanity of it.

It was the one time in my life that I ever really drove. I had delayed as long as possible before getting my license, and only a year or two later when I arrived at college I ditched personal transport for public transit. But when I was doing high school and community college at the same time there was no other way to get it done. One of the few things I liked about driving was the excellent acoustics. There was something just truly personal about being sealed in with music all around you.

I have a distinct memory of driving to class at the community college when “Little Wing” came on. It created a dilemma. If I were to get out of my car right then (which is what I needed to do to be on time for class) I would miss the rest of the song. But this song was too good. I hung out in the parking lot to let the song play out. Finishing that song was clearly more important than my education.

The thing is, that wasn’t even my first time with the song. I had heard it plenty of times before, and knew I would again. That was kind of the problem; I knew exactly how good it was. It’s pure bliss, beginning to end, and on a level that manages to make Jimi look he was barely scratching the surface with the original.

Lie in Our Graves - Dave Matthews Band

This unassuming song takes me a couple places.

First is to an empty parking lot with my friends Kristin and Dave. We’re listening to Dave Matthews on the car stereo, windows down, and dancing outside. We probably look like total idiots, but we don’t care.

Next is at a church Young Life function, where Kristin is going through the song lyric by lyric in some presentation on the power of secular music. Dave and I are in the back, dancing in our chairs, and being thoroughly distracting.

Finally is me by myself, playing the song on the guitar. This was one of the few songs I actually learned how to play in its entirety. That may sound like it’d be a more common occurrence, but unless you’re actually performing music it’s far easier to just learn the main riffs of songs and leave it at that. This song has many different forms and transitions, and I decided to learned them all. I could play it from beginning to end, or at least I could back then.

It’s not my favorite Dave Matthews song, but it is one that’s special to me through some set of oddly personal events.

All-Star - Smash Mouth

This song is Dave. He was a totally charismatic guy that would go through the halls and somehow be friends with everyone. I’ve never known anyone with as much school spirit as Dave. During Senior year he called everyone “All-Star”. He was kind of a catch phrase kind of guy, but he somehow managed to make it sound personal for each person.

We eventually became pretty good friends. We’d been around each other for all of high school and earlier, but it wasn’t until Senior year that anything clicked. This was largely the result of shared proximity to Kristin, but Dave and I found our own ways to bond, like Starcraft.

Later we had a sort of a falling out. There was an incident involving a girl that Dave didn’t approve of, but we never talked about it. We just allowed things to drift apart. When you’ve both left to different cities for college it’s incredibly easy to just let things fade and die naturally.

Sugar Craft - Medeski, Martin & Wood

Later in life Jessica (we’ll get to her, but not quite yet) would be worried about exposing me to Morcheeba because of the record scratching and general mixed and/or electronic elements. I had become pretty strongly acoustic in my music listening habits, and she was worried about offending my gentle sensibilities. But she had nothing to fear, because years earlier I had been listening to the continually evolving and experimenting music of MMW. Although it was dormant then, I’d already adopted stuff like this to my vocabulary years earlier.

Do What You Have To Do - Sarah McLachlan

I never owned this album. I say this not in an effort to protect my manliness (although this is probably the girliest entry on this list). I say this because it’s noteworthy how well I know the album given that I never had personal access to it. This is the result of dating someone with a different musical history; you get a deep dive into their music tastes without even realizing that it’s happening.

As I built this list I often do research by listening to albums I remember being exposed to at the time. Sometimes I come back with memories, sometimes I don’t. This one was a bit of a late addition, something I didn’t even consider until a week ago. But I’m glad I acted on that idea. This album sounds like high school to me. It sounds like prom. And it sounds like the relationship I was in.

I didn’t go out of my way to select a song with any lyrical significance. But in listening through the album this song oddly stuck out to me, and then I noticed the lyrics of what I had chosen. “I don’t know how to let you go.” Wow, okay. Um, did I mention that this was a doomed relationship? It was the end of high school, and we were each going away to colleges in different states. The experiment had an undeniable fixed end point. It didn’t really matter if it was going well, it was going to fall apart. It had to. That creates a very particular brew of emotions. And this song stirs those up.

There were less heavy aspects to this album. “Ice Cream”, for example. But I’m going to stick with my first instinct and go with the melodrama.

Music Made Me - Part 11

I Could Be Wrong - Seven Mary Three

There is a drum kit in my basement. There isn’t normally, but today there is. That’s because there’s music brewing in the basement. Me and a collection of friends are recreating “I Could Be Wrong” to the best of our ability. Including drums. Including horns. This shit is happening.

I don’t think we did a terribly good job of covering the song. But we tried, and it was fun. I remember going through the shared guitar/horn solo with Andy. I remember that feeling of a group of people working together to co-create. For as much time as I’ve spent on music in my life, not very much of it has been spent making music with other people. That’s probably not very wise of me.

This motley crew of half-committed musicians also attempted some original works. I have a cassette case labeled with one of those recordings. Cruelly the case is empty; the tape that goes with it got lost in the shuffle. I still hope that one day I’ll stumble upon it and unlock a window into this time period.

Born on the Bayou – Creedence Clearwater Revival

In Freshman year my social studies class required a presentation on a scale that blew my middle-school mind. The teacher wanted us to talk for how long? In front of everyone? It was supposed to be about some modern nation, but I had Egypt and totally cheated by talking about pharaohs and mummification the whole time. I spent more time on the rendition of Anubis on my oversized poster than I did on planned talking points. When my presentation was over my teacher made some comment about my radio voice. I barely heard it over my relief to be finished. But it turns out he was slightly prophetic, as that I ended up being a radio DJ for my final high school years.

Okay, so it was only the local student station (KGHP). And it’s not like I was selected for my voice - I just got the gig as a hand me down from my friends Phil and Ethan after they graduated. But I had a fair amount of fun with it.

I played a selection of music that sourced from all the things you’ve read about here, but more than anything I played classic rock. And Creedence Clearwater Revival is about as classic rock as it gets. So why “Born on the Bayou”? Sure I could put on something like “Fortunate Son”, but that song’s only like two minutes long. Since I needed to manually transition every song change I found myself subconsciously preferring the longer songs that gave me more time between. Plus “Born on the Bayou” has a great groove.

Shelf In The Room - Days of the New

My dad has acquired a rental property. I’m there to see the units for the first time. For some reason there’s an odd thing in the wall that also acts as a radio. I don’t think there was a callbox, so this wall device can’t be related to that. I feel like it was a thermostat, but what’s a thermostat doing with a radio? I remember thinking this was odd, but nonetheless tuning the radio and picking up this song. The speaker sounded awful, but there was still something nice about filling the empty apartment room with some raw acoustic music.

That wasn’t the first time I had heard the band or the song, but I think it was shortly after that that I picked up the album. It was exactly the sort of thing I needed: a celebration of the acoustic guitar. There are other instruments at work here, but there’s no denying the aggressively foreground guitar. It’s got a full and varied sound that makes you question why you’d ever need to electrify and distort such a powerful instrument.

I was excited to try to learn these songs. I bought the guitar tablature, but it turned out almost every song on the album had a crazy unique tuning. That killed the ability to pick up and play songs like these in a mixed rotation. It was hugely disappointing because I had been so excited to try to learn this style. Oh well, it was still inspiring to listen to.

Paran - John Zorn

So my friend Kevin had already been this great source of music influences. This one time I was hanging out at his house and he was playing… this. It catches my attention. I got the name from him and later bought a copy of the album. It’s the most Jewish thing I own.

I believe Kevin found the album as a result of the involvement of John Medeski, one of the M’s in MMW. It’s a strange album compared to the rest of my collection. I didn’t know exactly what to make of it, other than that there was something I liked about it. And because of the purely instrumental nature it was something I could listen to alongside all sorts of things. This gave it some legs.

There’s something about this album that makes me think of Vampire: The Masquerade - Redemption, a PC game that I would be playing later in college. That association exists, but I’m not exactly sure they are things I experienced overlapping. It’s true that this album feels like a good soundtrack for the early sections of the game in Prague and Vienna, but logistically I just can’t imagine myself setting up custom background music. There’s always been a mental connection between Kevin and Vampire (both the pen and paper game and the card game), so it’s possible that my brain just connected these two things up all on its own.

#41 - Dave Matthews Band

Eventually I took a deeper look at The Dave Matthews Band. I can’t remember what song brought me in, but it’s safe to say that Crash was the album. I listened to Under the Table and Dreaming around this time too, and very much enjoyed it, but for whatever reason it didn’t manage to form concrete memories like Crash did. Crash will have more contributions to this timeline than any other album, and that’s on a list where I try hard to only pick one song per album unless absolutely necessary.

Once I discovered The Dave Matthews Band I got into them a big way. The band was capable of a diverse sound from its unique combination of instruments, which I appreciated. But something that was particularly important to me was that Matthews could actually play the guitar. Well. And it was an acoustic guitar. These were not simple three chord jams hidden behind waves of distortion. Playing along to these songs demanded that I make significant growth as a guitarist.

I can’t imagine “#41” being played by any other band. It’s a song that defies description, which is probably why it never got a name. It was most likely “Crash Into Me” that caused me to pick up the album, but it’s the complexity behind something like “#41” that caused me to delve deep into this band for years.

Although I also have a loving memory of my dad dancing around like a monkey to “Proudest Monkey”. That’s good stuff too.

Music Made Me - Part 10

Under the Bridge - The Red Hot Chili Peppers

I put this song far later into the timeline than when I first experienced it (which would have been 1991-1992). That’s because to me it goes with a very specific memory, one which eclipsed whatever previous attachment I had for the song.

I’m on the return trip from my one and only experience ice skating. I’m riding in the back seat with a girl. I’ve been seeing more of this girl at school lately, and I’ve decided I like her. Somehow I muster the courage to sing this song to her. I’m sure it must have been along to the radio, not unprompted a capella, although over the years my voice has grown louder and the radio has grown quieter. Following this there was some head-resting-on-shoulder action. Apparently it wasn’t so terrible as to make her run away. She must have liked me, because it’s not like I can sing.

Three Marlenas - The Wallflowers

I remember a discussion about what was the best song on this album between myself, my brother, and my brother’s girlfriend Francesca. The decision made (at least by that vote) was that it was “Three Marlenas”. It’s a good song, sure, but I think perhaps my brother may have been unduly influenced by the fact that the song mentions Chevrolet; he was a bit of a fanatic back then.

I’m sure my brother only has vile things to say about her now, but I really liked my brother’s girlfriend. It was like having a big sister. She could give me advice that I very much needed.

At this moment in time I had a viable prospective love interest. A first. As in a girl that seemed to like me back, and I thought we might kiss. Which I have never done before. Oh crap!

Francesca gave me the invaluable tip to practice kissing on my hand first. This is the sort of thing you need a sister to tell you to do. I felt more than a bit silly, but it better to work out the kinks well in advance. I don’t know how awful I was, but I’m sure I would have been way worse without that advice.

Comedown - Bush

For me this is the point where we transitioned from calling it “grunge” to calling it “alternative”. I mean, this is a pretty man. How can the music made by pretty people be called “grunge”?

This was an influence from my newfound girlfriend (!) Cambria. It wasn’t a lasting impression musically, but it was nice that we could listen to the same things. I recall her not having a problem with the lead singer being a pretty man.

I had an image in my brain from the music video for this song. In my head I see a guitar cord that’s a big tube and someone aggressively thrusting a guitar towards the camera. The particular image coincides with 3:33 in the song, where the music lands after drifting away a bit and is celebrated with a masterfully singular guitar hit. It’s the powerful return to form that “Lightning Crashes” didn’t have. Anyway, I had an image in my head of what that looks like in the music video. And I just watched it again and it’s not there. Clearly I remembered the video, but in my head the details are incredibly different. The edit of the song for the video is shorter, so the same moment happens at 2:47. I don’t know when my memory drifted apart from reality. The specific image I have doesn’t occur anywhere in that video. It’s weird to have a concrete image in your head that is provably wrong.

Lucky - Seven Mary Three

This album is the greatest musical takeaway from my relationship with Cambria. After my general dissatisfaction with the previous Seven Mary Three album I hadn’t followed up on the band. I should have, because the next album, this album, is great.

Well, great-_ish_. The correct way to experience this album is to listen to the first track (“Lucky”), and then skip ahead to track 4 (“Honey Generation”), and after that move to 6 (“People Like New”) to ride out the rest of the album. I believed this so strongly that years later when I ripped the CD (digital music, crazy I know) I deleted those tracks (2, 3, and 5) entirely. Right now, as I’m writing this, I’m listening to them for the first time in at least a decade.

It’s not that those songs are the worst ever. They’re just wrong for the album. I feel like I’m repeating myself here, but the B-side of this album is the album. It has a sound, and that sound is good. That stuff at the beginning just gets in the way.

So why “Lucky”? Well, there would have been an easy way to bypass my problem entirely: always start at track 6. But I could never listen to the album without “Lucky”. That would just be wrong. I would rather tolerate the pain of having to wait for the song to end and then quickly skip ahead past the bad stuff. The song was (and is) that good.

Soldier’s Daughter - Tonic

Here we have another album brought to my attention by my first girlfriend. Shortly after hearing this song I decided I was going to attempt to learn how to play it for her. But playing it wasn’t enough, I was going to both provide guitar and vocals. This is not something I actually could (or can) do, mind you. I don’t know if it’s the guitar playing or the singing that takes more concentration, but what matters is that the combination requires more than I have. So this was a doomed desire from the outset and thus never fully materialized.

One key thing made it even possible to attempt in the first place. That thing is the internet. Yes, we have an internet now at this point in the timeline. I know this because I looked up the guitar tablature for this song on the internet. Back in ‘97 with some pre-Google search engine.

The end result of all of this is that I know the song rather well. Not well enough, of course, but well. And I still like it, because it’s a great song. I like the album as a whole, actually. It’s something I only really listened to during this time in my life, but I feel like deserves more.

Music Made Me - Part 9

Billy Breathes - Phish

Throughout all my musical explorations over these years Phish was part of my vocabulary the whole time. It’s not something that really any one else I knew was listening to, and it’s not like Phish got much play on the radio, but I kept on listening.

The album Billy Breathes felt like a significant departure for the band. For a band known for their live performances, it was clear that this was a studio album through and through. From the first couple songs you could hear that the band was trying to create something tighter. The songs are reasonable in length, there are some lyrics that actually try, there are nice vocal harmonies, and there’s a distinct lack of meandering jams. This music was designed to be listened to in this way, recorded, not live. Which for Phish was… different.

Those first couple tracks felt more like singles, and they just don’t stand up to repeated listening as well. But the B-side of this album is solid. Can I still call it a B-side when I’m talking about the remaining 10 of 13 tracks?. It just all sounds like a B-side. It’s got a gentle consistent sound. It’s actually hard to pick out the individual songs, because everything flows together so well.

I’ve mentioned before a habit of preparing for sleep with music; finding albums that had good endings so that I could just leave them on to play me out. This was definitely one of those albums. Maybe the last one, as that the habit didn’t last beyond high school.

I was going to nominate “Prince Caspian” to represent this album in the timeline. It’s the last song on the album, and would always bring me back awake a bit (albeit in a happy gentle kind of way). But after further reflection it’s the title track, “Billy Breathes”, that really sums up the whole run for me. It’s understated, mellow, soothing, vocally compelling and musically diverse. And I love how it leads into “Swept Away”, which then is turned slightly nightmarish for “Steep”, which sets you up for the fresh breath of morning that is “Caspian”. Many albums ago Phish had tried to do a dream concept album, Rift, but Billy Breathes pulls off the same idea so much better.

Three years later I would begin dating the woman who would eventually become my wife. That first year I gave her a Christmas gift, which was a bowl I painted for her… and this album. Billy Breathes had stayed in my head space that whole time, and really felt like something that showed a key part of my musical experience.

Bubblehouse - Medeski, Martin & Wood

Remember MMW from before? Groovy organs, maybe sometimes a little crazy? Well Shack Man brought a little more of that groove out. And my friend Kevin, who introduced me to the band, was not just listening to this, he was working on emulating it. Piano was taking a bigger role in his life, and he was starting to work towards the musician/composer that he would eventually become.

I think it was a school talent show, but I can’t actually remember specifically. I just remember Kevin performing “Bubblehouse”. Which is a bit of a gimmicky song. It increases in pace until it gets to unmaintainable place. Then some random stuff happens that doesn’t really work well before it drops right back into the original riff at exactly the right speed (at 2:50, again at 3:33). It’s one of those moments where departing from center makes center more valuable. Contrast. But the cost on this contrast is slightly unbalanced, limiting my enjoyment. Still, it was much fun to see my friend frantically hammer away at those keys. I don’t know if he considers it a turning point in his life, but from my perspective it felt like it was.

I’d be remiss without mention “Dracula”. Not because it’s tied into another specific memory, but because it’s a great MMW song from this album.

Too Much - Dave Matthews Band

I’m in my bedroom, playing with LEGOs. I’m too old to be playing with LEGOs, but LEGOs are awesome, so I don’t care. I still don’t. A song comes on the radio. It sounds kind of like “Sledgehammer”. When the song is over the DJ says it’s by some band called “The Dave Matthews Band”. I remark to myself that this is a stupid name for a band. I return to my LEGOs.

That stupidly named band will become a critical part of my musical experience from late high school to early college, but at this moment they leave almost no impact whatsoever. I have the memory, but in no way did I rush out and buy the album, or even look the band up.

Disco Inferno - The Trammps

The older we got the less my brother and I hung out, but there was still overlap. Some of his friends I liked, some I didn’t. Some of them also became my friends. One of those was Ethan.

At our high school, seniors had to put together some sort of senior project as part of their graduation requirement. Ethan was interested in film making, so he decided to make a movie. More specifically, a stop-motion animated movie. I ended up being involved as the character creator and animator. The title: Timmy and the Space Creatures.

In the movie aliens come to Earth in response to receiving an “audio delight” that reached them as radio waves after traveling through space for decades. They capture a young boy and demand he produce more. There’s a dance sequence to “Disco Inferno”. Forever that song for me is hours spent in Ethan’s garage painstakingly moving small clay figures. It was a lot of work, and it was also incredibly fun.

Wake Up - Mad Season

Outside of the movie, I did get a more contemporary music reference from Ethan. I only remember two songs from the album: “Wake Up” and “River of Deceit”. Those are the first and third tracks, but I have no memory of the second. I got this as a copy from Ethan on cassette, so I think that means he actually saved me the trouble and just edited that out.

I don’t know about you, but I got pretty much no sleep in high school. The staggered transportation schedule with the other school tiers (middle and elementary) results in high school students having to get up ridiculously early. School eats up a large section of your day, and then you’ve got the remainder to find out who you are as a person. By the end of all of this it’s late and you’re exhausted.

As mentioned above, I would go asleep to music. But waking up to music can be nice too. I took the suggestion in the title “Wake Up” and for awhile I used that song as a gentle wake up progression. It starts soft and builds into something harder to ignore, making it a good fit for the sleep deprived student.

Freaks - Live

As far as I can tell, this is the last album I ever had a copy of on cassette. Yes, there were some mix tapes after this, but this was the last time I remember getting a copy of a full album on cassette.

In hearing this song I experience two concrete sensory memories of friends singing along. At 1:40 I see Mary, at 3:13 I see Andy. I think these memories are from the same sitting, but I can’t place where. But it’s startling how clear the image is.

Music Made Me - Part 8

When the Music’s Over - The Doors

If I hadn’t done my research I would have placed this much earlier in the timeline. But thankfully my sketchbooks are littered with timestamps. They’ve been invaluable at times for ironing out these fine ordering details. I don’t think anyone else cares if this is strictly autobiographical order, but it is important to me. Anyway, the point is that the music I listened to had a tendency to creep into the art I was making. I found some pretty random sketches related to The Doors, and specifically “When the Music’s Over”.

I don’t think The Doors would be the same without the rampant substance abuse of Jim Morrison. Even though I was about as straight-laced of a kid as they make, there’s something that appealed to me about Morrison’s bat-shit-crazy forays off into the deep. I was oddly attracted to stupid bullshit like “The End”. I don’t know why I was so damned weird, but I was, and I liked weird things. Even though I was dead sober.

I wanted to appear somewhat normal and pick something like “Riders on the Storm” for this list, which is a song that I love. There are actually plenty of Doors songs that I both adore and are perfectly listenable. But they didn’t punch through in the way that those lyrics about “the screams of the butterflies” did. Seriously, looking through my sketchbooks I appeared to be a very disturbed kid. I don’t know why they didn’t lock me up.

Ramble On - Led Zeppelin

I actually don’t have a concrete time to put in Zeppelin. We’re at the point in my story where I’m really delving into classic rock, but it’s not like I can point to a Zeppelin record in the way that I can with The Doors. All of my exposure was via the radio, which makes it almost impossible to place.

What I can concretely pinpoint is The Lord of the Rings. The moment I started reading those books the evidence was legion in my sketch books. I can give exact dates for when I had hit Weathertop, Moria, Amon Hen, pretty much the whole journey to Mount Doom. I had finally got around to reading what Dragonlance and pretty much anything fantasy I had ever consumed was sourcing from, and I was not disappointed.

So, what does this have to do with Zeppelin? Almost nothing, except the some lyrics in this song punched through to me over the radio. Did he just say “Mordor”? Is this a rock song that has a verse about Gollum? Awesome. Also, this song is great.

Oye Como Va - Santana

At this point should I just say “I discovered classic rock” and leave behind the prose. There are just too many influences washing over me at this point. Delving into a single one seems like giving it undue focus. It’s not like I turned into a Santana nut. It’s just that this song makes me feel like a particular time in my life. I don’t even have a story for this one. I unfailingly think of Noah, and of riding along in the car. It’s just a light, fun, happy song that makes me want to dance. Not that I ever would have danced at that age, god no.

Iris - Live

Okay, enough of me blissfully exploring my rock roots. Time for something contemporary. Time for some melodrama.

I was making friends. Some were rediscovered, but some were honestly new high school friends. Some of them were girls. And I didn’t know it at the time, but I was totally going to develop some asymmetric crushes. Alas, no reciprocation for me quite yet. It will come eventually, don’t worry.

I don’t know how it is you get to associate a particular band or album with a particular set of friends, but it happened all the time back then. I guess when you’re young you don’t really have that much else to talk about. Music is powerful, and something you can bond over. Well this small group of friends that I’m thinking of are somehow are wrapped up in Live and Throwing Copper.

I combed through the album, which was intensely familiar. “Iris” felt like the right pick to represent how the album made me feel, and how I think it resonated with that group. But honorable mention here goes to “Shit Towne”, and the memory of trying to convince Mary’s younger sister that the lyric was “Ship Town”.

Dishonorable mention to “Lightning Crashes” for completely petty reasons. So the song’s pretty good, don’t get me wrong. It’s got that slow build-up which I like. After lots of natural build it transitions into a bridge at about 3:30. We’re still fine at this point. It’s how it comes out of the bridge that creates problems. At 4:06 it jumps right back into the chorus, but it feels oddly… deflated. It sounds like when mastering the track someone turned down the volume right at that point. The idea being that the song needed to go quiet again before the finale. But it feels forced. It feels artificial. It drives me crazy every single time I hear the song. And it’s in the final part of the song. There’s no time for me to recover and feel good about it. I just get dumped at the end of the song feeling used.

There’s an underlying note of rejection for me in this whole album. I had a friendship that felt like it should go to another place to me, but the feeling wasn’t mutual. Thankfully the friendship survived that. So it’s still something I can listen to (although I hadn’t in ages), but it’s a tad melancholy because I can’t quite separate what I was feeling from what I was hearing.

One Headlight - The Wallflowers

There are a couple of things wrapped up in this album. Namely, a hat, a girl named Lisa, and a girl named Francesca.

It’s summer break. Not this one. Earlier, I think. I think between 8th and 9th, but maybe 9th and 10th. I’m anxious about the coming year. I have become keenly aware of how volatile friendships are in this scary new world. My mood is poor, but gets immediately turned around by one phone call. The person on the other end is Lisa, who I’ve known since middle school. I don’t have the slightest clue how phone numbers got exchanged and under what excuse a call was initiated. My guess is that it’s the only time a phone number dropped in a yearbook got used for the powers of good. Anyway, I don’t know how we got to that point, but I ended up chatting with Lisa on the phone. Not in any sort of romantic way, or about any particular topic. Just the idle phone chat that I could do back then that I can’t now. The point is I could feel a new friendship being forged. The future all of the sudden looked brighter. Just talking to someone else put me back on an optimistic path.

I remember walking around the house while on the phone. I remember finding a funky old-man hat and wearing it around. I remember feeling self conscious about the idea of wearing it out, but Lisa being totally supportive. Of course I never did. I really wanted to be the sort of person that could, but I wasn’t. But I’ve never forgotten the support from that voice on the other line.

Later Lisa and I actually began to hang out. In school we became math partners. And at some point in there I remember us adopting this song as our anthem.

Many years later I was able to see Lisa again at my high school reunion. I really enjoyed catching up with her. She was one of the only two people there that I realized I probably shouldn’t have let drift apart.