Music Made Me - Part 12
12 Mar 2012Little Wing - Stevie Ray Vaughn
In my last two years of high school I added on part time community college classes via the “Running Start” program. Between the two it was a lot of school. It was kind of ridiculous. For some reason I didn’t really question the sanity of it.
It was the one time in my life that I ever really drove. I had delayed as long as possible before getting my license, and only a year or two later when I arrived at college I ditched personal transport for public transit. But when I was doing high school and community college at the same time there was no other way to get it done. One of the few things I liked about driving was the excellent acoustics. There was something just truly personal about being sealed in with music all around you.
I have a distinct memory of driving to class at the community college when “Little Wing” came on. It created a dilemma. If I were to get out of my car right then (which is what I needed to do to be on time for class) I would miss the rest of the song. But this song was too good. I hung out in the parking lot to let the song play out. Finishing that song was clearly more important than my education.
The thing is, that wasn’t even my first time with the song. I had heard it plenty of times before, and knew I would again. That was kind of the problem; I knew exactly how good it was. It’s pure bliss, beginning to end, and on a level that manages to make Jimi look he was barely scratching the surface with the original.
Lie in Our Graves - Dave Matthews Band
This unassuming song takes me a couple places.
First is to an empty parking lot with my friends Kristin and Dave. We’re listening to Dave Matthews on the car stereo, windows down, and dancing outside. We probably look like total idiots, but we don’t care.
Next is at a church Young Life function, where Kristin is going through the song lyric by lyric in some presentation on the power of secular music. Dave and I are in the back, dancing in our chairs, and being thoroughly distracting.
Finally is me by myself, playing the song on the guitar. This was one of the few songs I actually learned how to play in its entirety. That may sound like it’d be a more common occurrence, but unless you’re actually performing music it’s far easier to just learn the main riffs of songs and leave it at that. This song has many different forms and transitions, and I decided to learned them all. I could play it from beginning to end, or at least I could back then.
It’s not my favorite Dave Matthews song, but it is one that’s special to me through some set of oddly personal events.
All-Star - Smash Mouth
This song is Dave. He was a totally charismatic guy that would go through the halls and somehow be friends with everyone. I’ve never known anyone with as much school spirit as Dave. During Senior year he called everyone “All-Star”. He was kind of a catch phrase kind of guy, but he somehow managed to make it sound personal for each person.
We eventually became pretty good friends. We’d been around each other for all of high school and earlier, but it wasn’t until Senior year that anything clicked. This was largely the result of shared proximity to Kristin, but Dave and I found our own ways to bond, like Starcraft.
Later we had a sort of a falling out. There was an incident involving a girl that Dave didn’t approve of, but we never talked about it. We just allowed things to drift apart. When you’ve both left to different cities for college it’s incredibly easy to just let things fade and die naturally.
Sugar Craft - Medeski, Martin & Wood
Later in life Jessica (we’ll get to her, but not quite yet) would be worried about exposing me to Morcheeba because of the record scratching and general mixed and/or electronic elements. I had become pretty strongly acoustic in my music listening habits, and she was worried about offending my gentle sensibilities. But she had nothing to fear, because years earlier I had been listening to the continually evolving and experimenting music of MMW. Although it was dormant then, I’d already adopted stuff like this to my vocabulary years earlier.
Do What You Have To Do - Sarah McLachlan
I never owned this album. I say this not in an effort to protect my manliness (although this is probably the girliest entry on this list). I say this because it’s noteworthy how well I know the album given that I never had personal access to it. This is the result of dating someone with a different musical history; you get a deep dive into their music tastes without even realizing that it’s happening.
As I built this list I often do research by listening to albums I remember being exposed to at the time. Sometimes I come back with memories, sometimes I don’t. This one was a bit of a late addition, something I didn’t even consider until a week ago. But I’m glad I acted on that idea. This album sounds like high school to me. It sounds like prom. And it sounds like the relationship I was in.
I didn’t go out of my way to select a song with any lyrical significance. But in listening through the album this song oddly stuck out to me, and then I noticed the lyrics of what I had chosen. “I don’t know how to let you go.” Wow, okay. Um, did I mention that this was a doomed relationship? It was the end of high school, and we were each going away to colleges in different states. The experiment had an undeniable fixed end point. It didn’t really matter if it was going well, it was going to fall apart. It had to. That creates a very particular brew of emotions. And this song stirs those up.
There were less heavy aspects to this album. “Ice Cream”, for example. But I’m going to stick with my first instinct and go with the melodrama.